Be a child. A child says about his birthday to others as “Today is my Happy Birthday.”
Before speaking the child make his / her birthday a happy one.
How many of us can speak about our actions, events as a happy one from within. The child speaks out of his intuition. But, as adults we just stop, scan around for all those ‘ifs and buts’. Just speaking one’s heart out works most of the time in life.
Again my golden principal, which is in line with the quote attributed to Epictetus, a Greek philosopher