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“Panch Prayag” –  The Himalayan Lesson – 2

After the visual spectacle of Devprayag, the road stretches out toward Srinagar, winding deeper into the heart of the mountains. This stretch isn’t just about the miles; it’s about the soul of the hills found in the simplest of places.

Leaving the confluence behind, we pulled over at a modest roadside dhaba, one of those small roadside hotels that looks like nothing from the outside and delivers everything on the inside. As it is said that in the mountains, “luxury” is often found in the most unexpected corners. We were greeted by a dhaba owner whose enthusiasm was as infectious as the mountain air.

What struck us first wasn’t the menu, but the spotless cleanliness of the place—a gleaming testament to the pride he took in his small haven. But the true star was the hospitality. There is an unbelievable warmth in the way a Pahadi host serves you; it’s not just a transaction, it’s an invitation into their world.

The meal? A steaming plate of Dal Chawal, simple and soul-satisfying. And the “best part” for any hungry traveller on a long mountain haul—eggs were available! There’s a specific kind of joy in finding a perfectly made omelette to complement your lentils when you’re hundreds of miles into a road trip. It was the kind of meal that fuels both the body and the spirit.

“Hospitality is the smell of fresh dal, a clean wooden bench, and a host who treats you like a long-lost friend.”

With hearts and stomachs full, we continued toward Srinagar. The road here begins to level out slightly as you approach the wide valley of the Alaknanda. The river stays your constant companion, its turquoise waters shimmering in the afternoon sun, guiding you toward the next chapter of the Panch Prayag journey.

Nature had other plans for us, to move away from frustration and be with nature, enjoy, I say it as a test of our patience as in the road towards Rudraprayag we met with road blocks, stoppages which seemed like that the mountains themselves were drawing a boundary.

Srinagar, Garhwal’s Srinagar, finally after the tight, winding drama of the mountain roads, the town opens into a wide, sun-warmed valley that feels almost generous in its flatness. The largest and most developed town in the region, it wears many hats: educational hub, fuel stop, lunch destination, and quiet guardian of some extraordinary spiritual landmarks. The air here is noticeably warmer and the pace noticeably slower.

Near the river’s edge, the Koteshwar Mahadev Temple waits inside a cave, a sacred darkness carved by nature long before anyone thought to build a shrine.

Dhari Devi, the ‘’Guardian Goddess of Uttarakhand’’ and ‘’The Spiritual Sentinel’’ is just 15 kms after crossing Srinagar. This is a highly revered shrine. The Dhari Devi Temple stands watch from an unusual perch, a raised platform in the middle of the Alaknanda River, elevated there after a dam altered the landscape forever. Legend says the idol changes its appearance from a girl to a woman to an old lady throughout the day. It is a powerful spot where you can see the river’s massive force being harnessed by the Alaknanda Hydro Power project.

The drive from Srinagar to Rudraprayag covers just 34 kilometres, but distance means very little in these hills. As Srinagar’s valley fades in the rear-view mirror, the mountains close in gently on either side, like walls of a corridor leading somewhere sacred. The road begins to hug the Alaknanda River more tightly as we heard before we saw around each bend.

Rudraprayag is the Confluence of Legends as it carries mythology, memory, and the ghost of a leopard. Rudraprayag is named after Lord Rudra, the fierce, untamed aspect of Shiva and the town carries that energy quietly but unmistakably.

This is the Second Prayag, the sacred meeting point where the Mandakini River, cold, green and restless from its long descent from the glaciers of Kedarnath, surrenders itself into the arms of the Alaknanda, which arrives with quiet authority from the direction of Badrinath. Standing at the confluence, you can almost see the two rivers resist each other for a moment before becoming one.

And here the road makes a great decision, one route peels away toward Kedarnath and the other continues along the Alaknanda toward Badrinath, tracing the river deeper into the mountains. Standing at this junction I felt at a loss as two sacred paths diverging in the hills, each calling to a different kind of pilgrim.

For me, Rudraprayag holds more than mythology, it holds memory — specifically, the memory of a childhood spent with a book. Long before I ever saw these mountains, I had read them. Jim Corbett’s “The Man-Eating Leopard of Rudraprayag”, his pursuit of a leopard that had terrorized the region for 8 long years , from 1918 to 1926, killing over 125 people and becoming, in its way, as legendary as the rivers it prowled beside. The animal moved like a shadow through these very hills, crossing rope bridges, entering locked homes, outwitting every trap laid for it. Corbett himself wrote of it with a respect bordering on awe. So, for me a childhood dream has become a picture now after four decades…

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“Panch Prayag” –  The Himalayan Lesson…1

Patience is a Virtue, but the View is the Reward.

“The mountains are calling and I must go.” — John Muir

It began as a quiet wish and ended as a ‘Dream Come True.‘ The mountains have always held a certain spell over me, but the Panch Prayag was something deeper. For me ‘The hills fascinate, but the rivers guide’.

My hectic, short-duration, long-distance ‘Himalayan Road Trip’ was a pilgrimage for the soul. Our road trip from Delhi to the heart of Uttarakhand has been a masterclass in “going with the flow.”

There is a unique magic in watching turquoise waters, crystal clear and pure, break into milky rapids deep in the valleys. These five holy confluences aren’t just geographical points; they are moments of stillness to be cherished forever.

Our goal was ambitious, a distance of around 500 kilometres, a 12-hour marathon behind the wheel, aiming for the heights of Joshimath by sunset.

We hit our first hurdle early—the legendary, slow-moving tide of Rishikesh traffic. But as the urban clutter faded and the mountains began to rise, the frustration evaporated. It’s a true test of patience, where Rishikesh acts as the chaotic gatekeeper to the divine beauty of the Panch Prayag.

My aim was to Focus and Enjoy…

“Focus on the journey, not the destination. Joy is found not in finishing an activity but in doing it.”  Greg Anderson

In the end, the landscape didn’t just soothe the delay; it made every minute of the drive feel like a privilege. With age comes in experience, patience and the ability to hold back. Its difficult in a chaotic situation but as it is said that “Patience is not the ability to wait, but the ability to keep a good attitude while waiting.” 

Rishikesh, also known as the Yoga Capital of the World, is where the Ganges leaves the mountains and enters the plains. One who wants a stopover here can visit the iconic suspension bridges, Ram Jhula and Lakshman Jhula (scheduled for re-opening shortly), and the evening Ganga Aarti at Triveni Ghat. It’s also the adventure hub for white-water rafting and bungee jumping.

The transition into the Himalayas isn’t always a silent one. Breaking free from Rishikesh felt like navigating a beautiful, frantic obstacle course. The roads hummed with an unruly energy, a sea of white-water rafting vehicles, their brightly colored rafts strapped precariously to their roofs like oversized shells. These “river-runners” zig-zagged through the dense traffic, filled with excited passengers ready to challenge the rapids, adding a layer of adrenaline-fueled chaos to the legendary Rishikesh congestion.

As a driver, it was a test of patience, but there was something undeniably “Himalayan” about the sight of those rafts. They were the last remnants of the commercial rush, the final markers of the adventure capital before the road narrowed and the mountains claimed the landscape for themselves. When you are in such a trip the roar of the engines, narrow roads, unruly driving all such adds to the adventure…

Slowly, the noise of the frantic traffic faded into the rearview. The air grew thinner, the emerald valley deeper, and suddenly, the horizon opened up to Devprayag, the “Godly Confluence”.

Standing above the Sangam, the reward for the long drive is instant. As I witnessed the marriage of opposites: the Bhagirathi, turquoise and turbulent, rushing down with a roaring fury, meeting the emerald waters of Alaknanda, calm, sedate, and deep green. At this precise point, they lose their individual names to become the Ganga. The sight is a mesmerizing act of mother nature, nature’s artistry at its maximum, which made the tiring 75 kms of drive into a moment of pure, silent awe. The unique stillness, the sound of the flowing water makes you forget the honking horns, traffic, the heat of the plains. For me, after reaching there, I felt that Devprayag isn’t just a destination or confluence, it is a new beginning, a place where the Calm and Chaos ends, becomes more soulful and teaches us the lesson of togetherness, giving up and energy.

Where two rivers meet, a new story begins. Devprayag is where the earth’s heartbeat becomes a river.

It also houses the 10,000-year-old Raghunathji Temple.

How to get there?

By Road – around 300 kms from Delhi. By Train – Delhi to Haridwar/Rishikesh (e.g., Shatabdi, Janshatabdi, Nanda Devi Exp, Mussoorie Exp). and then by bus or taxi/car to Devprayag (around 70 kms). By Air – Jolly Grant Airport (DED) in Dehradun, 90 km away from Devprayag.

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The Architecture of a Meaningful Life: From Russell’s Wisdom to the Digital Age

“The purpose of our lives is to be happy.” Dalai Lama

What is the ultimate goal of life? It’s a question that often catches up with us during quiet moments or at major crossroads. When we don’t have a clear sense of purpose, it’s easy to feel “adrift”, as if we are reacting to life rather than living it.

The truth is that a meaningful life isn’t found in social status or the accumulation of wealth. It is built, brick by brick, through the deliberate pursuit of happiness and the cultivation of a peaceful mind.

Happiness as an Achievement

We often think of happiness as something that “happens” to us, but the philosopher Bertrand Russell argued in The Conquest of Happiness (1930) that it is actually an achievement. It requires effort to overcome the psychological traps that steal our peace, the traps that have only become more sophisticated in the 21st century.

What comes to my mind is the beautiful and meaningful quote of Russel, “To be without some of the things you want is an indispensable part of happiness.”  

Even today, the 3 main culprits of our unhappiness as pointed out by Russell are universal truth:

  1. The Ego: An unhealthy preoccupation with our own importance and how we are perceived.
  2. Envy: The exhausting habit of measuring our worth against others.
  3. Competition: The relentless “rat race” that treats life like a struggle to be won.

The Digital Evolution: From Envy to FOMO

While Russell was writing in the 1930s, his insights feel like a prophetic blueprint for the smartphone era. What he called “Envy,” we now experience as FOMO (Fear of Missing Out).

Social media has digitized the comparison trap. We always compare our “behind-the-scenes”, i.e. our real, messy lives with everyone else’s “highlight reel.” Our Ego becomes tied to the dopamine loop of likes and notifications, leading to the “nervous fatigue” which Russell warned about nearly a century ago.

Today, we aren’t afraid we won’t have bread for breakfast; we are afraid we aren’t outshining our neighbours on a global scale.

My Take: Hobbies: Our Secret ‘Other World’

To combat this digital noise, we need a strategy to stabilize our minds. This is where the ‘art of making life colourful’ comes in. Developing a hobby, like gardening, reading, photography, or philanthropy is not just a way to pass the time, in today’s world it is a therapeutic necessity.

The playwright George Bernard Shaw once captured this perfectly, “The person who has a hobby may be said to have another world at his command.”

Buddhist philosophy echoes this through the concept of ‘Right Mindfulness.’ When you are fully immersed in a hobby, you are practicing ‘meditation in action.’ In those moments, the ego falls away as we are not competing for ‘reach’ or ‘likes’, rather we are simply being.

The Healing Power of the Natural World

While hobbies ground our minds, nature grounds our souls. There is a profound sense of gratitude to be found in the stillness of a forest or the majesty of a mountain. I do really find it, amidst nature rejuvenates me.

In The Monk Who Sold His Ferrari, Robin Sharma reminds us that a close connection with nature frees us from the noise of modern greed. Nature doesn’t have a refresh button or a newsfeed. By slowing down to match the pace of the natural world, we align ourselves with a simpler, more authentic version of ourselves.

“Nature does not hurry, yet everything is accomplished”, another age-old wisdom by LaoTzu

If you are ready to pivot toward a more joyful existence, you don’t need a radical overhaul.

It’s time to ‘Call for Action, for Reclaiming our Joy’

What comes to my mind are the following active shifts to our perspective and the actionable points to be undertaken:

  1. To Practice ‘Selective Ignorance’. Start may be to unfollow accounts that trigger our comparison-envy. Next will be to replace our passive scrolling with an active hobby that builds a skill or creates something tangible leading to joy and satisfaction.
  2. Creation of ‘Ego-Free Time’. Let’s dedicate some of our time each day to an activity that cannot be ‘posted.’ It is as simple as that to walk in the woods without taking a photo as this will be an experience that belongs entirely to you.
  3. ‘Competition to Admiration Shift’. It is said that ‘The antidote to Envy is Admiration’. Instead of feeling diminished by someone else’s success, lets us try and reach out to offer genuine praise. It will break the cycle of comparison.
  4. ‘Release’. To release the weight we hold within, free ourself, say from our obsession with material gain and also from past hardships. Look out for ‘Optimism’ the silver lining which is always there. The more we practice optimism, the more stronger and happy we become.

By seeking joy in these small, creative acts, we don’t just improve our own lives, we contribute to a world that is a little more peaceful, grounded, and colourful for everyone.

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A day to remember, so blessed…

There is always a thrill in everyone when the destination is Goa. Yes, I too was thrilled. But no, there was no thrill in me as I had visited Goa to attend a conference in Feb 26 and to go to the same place, à la the same venue was not at all a thrill inside me honestly. To go, travel around 90 minutes from the airport to the venue, some discussions and the next day fully packed with discussions culminating in a dinner and to return in the morning next day, again 90 minutes travel to airport, 3 hours flight time and then the notorious traffic congestion in Delhi, you never know how long you will have to be in the cab till you reach your destination. So I was not at all thrilled but it’s a part of life, a way to earn your living and your beloved company takes care of everything.

The 12th of March 26, a Thursday when I take vegetarian for my meals was another dampening factor. Finally after an enjoyable breakfast with the company of my friends, a little bit of leg pulling, as Goa was the destination, the ride to the airport was smooth, less traffic and flight was on time. 

Inside the flight as I got settled the request came, can you please shift to the window seat on the other side as my friends are seated next to you in the middle and window seat. Agreed, as they were young lads and were going to enjoy in Goa, I shifted to the window seat, leaving aside my comfort of seating in the aisle seat. 

The meal, although vegetarian was delicious and I enjoyed. This time deliberately I didn’t bring a book and so I tried sleep. But the excitement of the lads seated parallel to me made it difficult. So let me watch a movie, I checked and found that luckily an earlier download was available. no country for old man, Tommy Lee Jones and I enjoyed it fully.

Finally at around 1:30 pm landed in Dabolim airport Goa and as we waited for our vehicle a message flashed in what’s app that the scheduled meeting had been cancelled, the message read as “Due to ongoing geopolitical situation, the meeting has been cancelled. Inconvenience is regretted.”

So what do you do now? Stay back and do sightseeing or go back. We decided to go back and asked our team to book our return ticket on the earliest available flight to Delhi. Flight IA 488 was booked with scheduled departure at 7:20 pm. So we had some time with us and as we left the airport to have lunch, smiling and enjoying the circumstances the driver joined and remarked that in his 20+ years of driving, he has never ever heard of something like this. Also he was astonished to see us so cool, cheerful instead of cursing or swearing. I said that this is the was you should live your life, Do you have any other better option? Smile and be happy or swear and curse and spoil your day. He said that he has learned a new lesson for life. Together we enjoyed our lunch, he was also asked to join us and then we planned to go for some ride. We went to Panaji, then to Miramar beach, no getting down at around 34 degrees. Since we had to spend time, we decided to go to old Goa visited the Bom Jesus. From there we had a walk towards the river and found a jetty where ferries were transferring people with bikes, scooters, cars, trucks etc. we sat there enjoying the serene surroundings and also enjoyed two young kids angling to catch crabs. Within 20/30 minutes both of them were able to catch 3 crabs, good size. As we enjoyed coconut water in a nearby roadside stall, a lady customer was kind enough to answer our query regarding the ferry service. We were surprised when she said that it was free for people and only cars etc are charged they too a mere 10 rupees. 

As I sat on my seat, I was allotted 4E but as the passenger if 4D didn’t report or may have cancelled, I got to seat in an aisle seat which was not when I checked in for seat selection.

I called my travel agent to enquire about the vehicle details at Delhi airport, but to my utter surprise he informed that it will not be possible for them to arrange a vehicle even they agreed so when they were informed at 2 pm. Another surprise, but luckily a car was arranged by my efficient and ready to help office colleague. 

As the pilot announced that we are landing shortly and after few minutes the washroom will not available for us, I stood up but just got there and the passenger from seat 1A rushed in. The wait was made more longer as the pilots wanted to use. And then you stand, hold back and there is the long long wait to release. 

Have anyone had such an eventful day?

More frustrating situations to call it a bad day. 

What’s the outcome of this eventful day?

I would say that at the end of the day god was kind enough to make way for me to seat in an aisle seat. God had plans for me in advance, tested me, my patience and finally gave me a surprise.  At the end of the day, I am so grateful. I feel different, blessed as I was able to control my short temper, not get angry with the awkward situation, make my day miserable. However, with blessing and self control, I converted the disadvantage to my advantage, enjoyed a nice walk, became nostalgic seeing those kids angling and felt happy. 

“Chance depends on circumstances. Choice depends on your attitude” someone had said.

So, my inner voice says that whatever the situation is, we must act in such a way to make it favourable, enjoyable and at the end of the day God is there with surprises, positive and enjoyable.

I am grateful, I am blessed and pray for everyone to be happy and live in peace. 

9:32 pm, penned onboard AI 488.